Share your Secrets this Dying to Know Day

Dying to Know Day is a national day that encourages Australians of all ages to start important and empowering conversations about death, dying and end-of-life planning.

Their call to action is simple: if nobody knows your final wishes, they never will. You’ll be glad you shared that secret.

If you haven’t already thought about or documented your future decisions, now is the time to start.

When is it?

Each year Dying to Know Day is on 8 August but also extends throughout the month of August with hundreds of hosts around Australia holding gatherings aimed to normalise conversations about death, dying and grief.

Why plan ahead?

Advance care planning is not just for people who are unwell or older, it is for everyone. Knowing your wishes are clearly understood but the people who matter most can reduce stress and bring peace of mind, especially in times of crisis. You might even feel more in control and connected by starting these conversations

What is advance care planning?

Advance care planning is about making decision now for the kind of care you would want later. It is important as there may come a time when you can’t speak for yourself. It includes:

Talking to your loved ones and health care team
Putting legal documents in place that reflect your choices
Helping others understand what matters most to you.

Important Documents to have place

Here is a quick guide to key documents that help to support your future planning:

Advance Care Directive is a legal document detailing your decisions about your medical care should you not have capacity to communicate.
Enduring Guardian is a legally nominated person who can make decision on your behalf when you are unable to.
Enduring Power of Attorney is a legal representative appointed to manage financial and legal matters on your behalf when you are unable to.
A will is a legal document with directions about important things such as inheritance, your estate, or the care of children.
Superannuation Binding Death Benefit Nomination is a form which allows your remaining super to paid to the person of your choice. It is important to check with your super provider as rules can vary.

Please note: The rules and regulations can differ between states and territories. More information can be found here: Record your choices | Advance Care Planning Australia

What about your send off?

If you have preferences for your funeral, memorial, wake, or other types of send-offs, writing down your wishes can bring clarity and comfort to your family. Whether its music, flowers, letters, or rituals; documenting these choices is a way to express yourself.